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Two of my friends and I had talked about it: We were mutually interested in each other, and we were mutually interested in having a threesome. Great, step one accomplished, I thought to myself. We know we want to make it happen, but how, exactly, do we have a threesome? Concerns began to swarm my head. Would we meet at one of our houses? None of us lived alone, so how were we going to make that work? What if one of us fell asleep on the way there?

Threesomes hold something of a fabled allure in our collective sexual imagination. Adding an extra amount to a sexual encounter is hot as hell for a few number of reasons, not slight of which is just the sheer visual and physical sensory overload that comes with it. Popular as the fantasy capacity be, research suggests the IRL experience is more of a mixed bag. In practice, threesomes are actually not that coarse. For monogamous couples, on the other hand, threesomes might be the single exception to the rule of exclusivity—and experimenting along with it might involve some astonishing emotional turbulence along the approach. The possibility was always arrange the table for us, although we pursued it more acutely during a period of non-monogamy. Our first one was along with a woman she connected along with on OKCupid who brought ahead the idea first, so around was little tension or clumsiness when we all met ahead for drinks and went ago to our place for a one-night stand.

URL Copied! Inviting someone else addicted to your bed for a threesome can be at once awe-inspiring and terrifying. Is there a big cheese you know who comes en route for mind, and could your appeal to have them join you indicate more than sexual attraction? Could this itch be scratched by simply communicating what you want with your partner, considerably than looking outside your relationship?

Women's Health may earn commission as of the links on this bleep, but we only feature products we believe in. Why assign us? Dec 5, Getty Images Threesomes top the charts of many a sexual fantasy. Their popularity knows no bounds.