By Gabrielle Moss Oct. I don't mean that in some gross, off-putting I don't get along with other women because I am way too sexxxy kind of way — most of my friends do happen to be women. But for whatever reason, I've typically also had more close male friends than the average lady. When you're a woman with a male best friend, people think that you're up to something. They can't quite agree on what it is — are you trying to get laid? Trying to inflate your ego by being the cool girl ? Trying to do both at the same time? And even if all that judgment doesn't bother you personally, you still have to deal with the weird hang-ups of your other friends, your family, and even science. There are new psychological studies conducted seemingly every year devoted to picking apart the extremely pressing question of whether men and women can be friends, even though they never seem to come to any concrete answers.
Although platonic friendships have the appeal of lasting forever, which leaves us mentally unprepared when they end. A friendship ending be able to feel like a personal act of violence, but oftentimes it's not a reflection on you, but arrange the person doing the unfriending. Which is great, but a minute ago not right for me. Although the fourth breakup was the one that broke my affection in an unusually painful approach. I wanted to make absolutely I heard these words acceptably. Just months before this flash, she and I could be caught laughing in the backseat of Ubers, coming home as of Friday nights out, dancing en route for Bruno Mars while cooking basic pasta dinnersand traveling to Orlando for Halloween Horror Nights. At once this was our horror. Before at least mine.
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